Jennifer Ryder Orcasitas April 7 at 10:46pm

you guys can be happy to know that you WERE successful in hurting Vanessa but thats all gone now… we know that he cut his hand with a saw and know that he will be ok. You can let your Mom know that what she is doing is very immature and wont break Vanessa, for whatever reason you guys like to hurt Vanessa so badly, I suggest you quit. Karma is a bitch. How would you feel if Nicole, the one you love, went to the hospital and you couldnt know why because her crazy family kept you from knowing. Really you boys need to grow some balls and realize what kind of hand your mother has on you. Its sad she wont let either of you become a man.

Michael Secord April 8 at 12:54am

Wow. What the FUCK did I do to ANY of you?? It’s real mature of you and Vanessa both to just assume everything is about/against either of you, or that someone is doing something that they aren’t. If you’d all get all of your facts straight before you start accusing people of things, and make sure you understood the full story, things would be very very different. I’m not going to go back and reference what I’m talking about, because god forbid anyone be wrong about anything, I know what the truth is, I’ve always been a neutral party in everything, and I’ve been there, and been through more shit with my family than either of you could ever even imagine.

Since you two seem to have it etched into your brains that this family, mom more specifically, is against you, I’m not going to try to convince you otherwise, but I will say this, if she was really against anyone, it would be much more blatant than, what you seem to think, this is. Mom is the FIRST one to say what’s on her mind, and instead of using a middleman to get her point across, she’ll say it to you face. You damn well know it Jenn, so quit acting like Vanessa’s fucking mediator. Maybe you two need to grow up as well, eh? I’m not going to get in the middle of this shit with you, Vanessa, Nathan, and mom. I’m not going to do it. If you aren’t grown-up enough to speak your mind, and then listen, I’m not going to humor your idiotic tendencies either.

Plain and simple, maybe you and Vanessa better get your stories straight. I didn’t do SHIT to either of you. Yet, I’m being punished, getting blocked on facebook, removed as a friend, completely ignored as if I don’t exist? What the fuck is up with that? How have I done ANYTHING to either of you? And this bullshit about stuff that’s been posted on facebook referring to Vanessa or you; if it was about either of you, I’d make that VERY fucking clear. I have more people in my life than my family and you two. Sorry to burst your bubble, but that’s just the raw truth. I’m not so interested in being the middle of all the drama that I have to make my life about just one or two people.

So, I don’t know WHERE you get the fucking idea that I have ANYTHING to do with this, but I’d really appreciate it if you’d get your shit straight. I’ve never done anything to anyone. I haven’t talked bad about either of you, I’ve not said shit to Nathan or Mom, or Vanessa or you for that matter, about ANY of this. Who gives you the fucking RIGHT to accuse me of this shit? AND WHERE THE FUCK DO YOU GET OFF BRINGING NICOLE INTO THIS?!?

I’m going to leave you with this. If you pull this shit again, accusing me of not being able to think for myself, of being in the middle of everyone else’s business, as it seems you HAVE to be, trying to pull me into the middle of something that I never have been, nor want ANY part of, and then bringing someone else who has even LESS to do with this than I do, shit will hit the fan. You’re being a real good role model for Vanessa, Jenn. I’ve always thought Nessa was a sweetheart, and I’ve never done anything wrong to her, much less you. So, if you have a problem with some part of my family, bring it the fuck up with them. If you don’t have the balls to say something to their face, maybe you shouldn’t be saying shit at all. So, I suggest you quit assuming shit, as all it’s doing is making you look like an even bigger ass. Remember Jenn, Karma is a bitch, and you slinging shit at innocent bystanders is only going to make it even worse for you.

Now, that you seem to only have the balls to say anything when Mom is unavoidably preoccupied, I bid you good night.

Jennifer Ryder Orcasitas April 8 at 5:00pm

Oh Micheal, you seem to think that you have it all on the straight and narrow. I wasnt trying to accuse you or your wife of anything and I have always liked you two, not that that matters. I have tried to get a hold of your mother and talk to her, but she (so maturely) hangs up on me. It really isnt my intention to try to bring you into this but I knew that you do care about Vanessa and you havent done anything to her and have been pretty mutual with things, as Vanessa has made pretty clear. I could have worded things differently and Im sorry for that but at the time I was very very upset, you are wrong when you say it has nothing to do with me, because when I have my 18 year cousin who I love over here crying and getting sick because she is terrified something bad happened to the person she loves it becomes my business. The only reason why I brought Nicole into this is to try and make you realize how she is feeling. Micheal you had to have known that Vanessa was a total mess last night and that your mother wouldnt give her any information, and I know that you dont want to get involved, but if any of you cared for her as much as you say you do, someone would have just let her know that he was ok, just to ease her heart. Including Nathan. I never said that I have been through more shit than you have with your family so I dont know where you get that from. I am sorry I said that you cant think for yourself, but I will not apologize for feeling bad for you and Nathan. I know that your mother loves you and I know that she has your guys’ best interest in mind, but she goes overboard. If you would open your eyes and look farther than the tip of your nose you would realize that almost everyone in your family says you hate drama, yet your mother is the definition of drama. She creates so much of her own its insane!! I love her and I always will, but she has changed. She may look at all these people around her and say we all have… but does that really make any sense… isnt it more believable that one person did the changing as oppose to a group of them? For your information, my story was straight and although I went about it wrong, and I have no problem saying so…. We know what happened and when Vanessa read your status on myspace, which you knew perfectly well she would read, the pain and fear on her face and in her eyes would have made Satan cry. So you can go right ahead and leave me with whatever words of wisdom of Karma that you think you may have…. I will leave you with this…… Micheal, I really am excited to see what kind of men you and Nathan become once you guys get off the tit of your mom and realize that you can have an amazing relationship with your her without her ridiculing every move you make, or trying to control every situation you guys are faced with. And you can say what you want, but the only people that dont see how much of a possessive hand she has on your ENTIRE family….. is you guys, just your family and the friends that are too scared to tell you the truth. I know she has good intentions with things… but she goes about the wrong way. And eventually you guys will see this. Misery loves company Micheal and that is what your Mother has become. MISERABLE!
As I said before, I am sorry if I made you feel attacked or blamed for anything. I made it pretty clear that that message was for your mom, and as far as saying it to her and not going through a middle man… I TRIED THAT, But as usual your oh so mature mom avoided it. So I went to her house, they never answered the door, I called her phone and Nathans phone, I texted, so there was valiant effort made on my part! One thing I can say for you, at least you didnt cowardly hide and not respond so thank you for that.
As far as making threats to me as far as shit will hit the fan… honey dont think for a minute that you scare me. I am waaayyy out of your league as far as that goes, and Im a way bigger bitch than you are an asshole :0) So I would just button it as far as that goes. Because chasing me around the trailer park with your big boy fire lights screaming Im gonna get you, really isnt intimidating to me. and that really is the only thing you can do to me. lol.

So, I’ll leave it at this. I’m not going to warranty a reply to try and sort out facts that are actually there. Jenn is still trying to pull me into the middle of something I have no business in, and I won’t have any part of it. Not to mention, the lack of grammar and spelling skills made this unbearably hard to read.

I figure, maybe a little public humiliation may lead to some actual thought before speech (Hey, I can dream, can’t I?)

TTFN

-Michael